Win, Lose Or Draw, It Is All Life

 

Life is a process, an experience and everything in-between. The genuine loser sees it all as a convenient blame mechanism, blaming everyone else for all problems other than what is in the mirror seen there. The genuine winner is self-responsible, patient, understanding and tolerant, also they see failure as a stepping stone instead of a convenient permanent blame mechanism that others cause for them. The only middle ground is the ultimate temporary reality, your choice to be a winner or loser in the matter, that is "the draw" or "the equalizer". Sure, that sounds cold in a way, but reality works like that, however we would love to see it.

The warmth of the lie is that it is the fault of everybody else that failure happens, and that failure is permanent and success cannot happen except by "luck". If we are winners, temporary failure is simply a stepping stone to permanent success, and "cheating the system" is a temporary success at best that leads to the most permanent failure even if you "get away with it in the eyes of others" because you know that you cheated to "make it". So, the only real road and short cut is the honest road and short cut that leads to everything even if you have many temporary setbacks and seeming will power drainer mechanisms along the way that seem to say "no". The ultimate "yes" is when you genuinely succeed at what you really want, no matter what happens in between the beginning of your journey and the goal. If you quit, you lose. If you persist and change approaches, you win. Even Richard Milhous Nixon and Michael Robert Milken found this one point of reality out strongly and they redeemed themselves from being "at the bottom of the heap of reality" with negative actions under their belts made positive ultimately. So, if you believe the warmth of the lie, that failure is permanent, think again and act accordingly.

I may not be one of those super sensitive people who thinks failure is permanent after a devastating loss, but, like anyone, I hate failure when it happens. It is only human or conscious to be that way, but the difference is that I hate failure so much that I am genuinely willing to go through that hell to reverse it and get the lesson and never repeat the failure, and only do the success ultimately.

So, I admit, mastery and success are hard. Within this article is what it takes to really win meaningfully and win in a desirable way. Get it, understand it, live by it. Do not just read it, and file it under "Good article". Get real with yourself as I do myself all the time. Do not just look in the mirror and blame yourself, kick yourself in the pants in that same mirror, and get successful at all costs. You will thank yourself later as I am thanking me now. So, I end with three magic words: I am willing. That is reality. That is it.

My name is Joshua Clayton, I am a freelance writer based in Inglewood, California. I also write under a few pen-names and aliases, but Joshua Clayton is my real name, and I write by that for the most part now. I am a philosophical writer and objective thinker and honest action taker. I also work at a senior center in Gardena, California as my day job, among other things, but primarily I am a writer.

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